Diane and I have had some very good talks over the past 34 years we have been married and that doesn't include the times before we were married. I guess one of the reasons we have survived this long is we cherish each others company. And we have learned to respect each other for who we are as God created us. So many couples think they can make it without God in thier lives, but they don't know that they are only exicting and not developing into the couple that God has planned for them to be. It's kinda like Christians who get saved so they can go to heaven and that's it, they are not willing to go any farther. They have become comfortable so leave me alone I have another movie to watch. Here's the problem often; what men are into is often not what wives need. When HE makes work or some other pursuit HIS top priority, something inside HER withers, and then dies. When SHE makes the children, work, or someother pursuit HER top priority, HE begins looking for something to numb the pain in HIS heart. couples drift apart unless they remain each others top priority. No matter where your marriage stands today, making each other top priority will always make it better.
Monday, May 31, 2010
Mondays momentum
Diane and I have had some very good talks over the past 34 years we have been married and that doesn't include the times before we were married. I guess one of the reasons we have survived this long is we cherish each others company. And we have learned to respect each other for who we are as God created us. So many couples think they can make it without God in thier lives, but they don't know that they are only exicting and not developing into the couple that God has planned for them to be. It's kinda like Christians who get saved so they can go to heaven and that's it, they are not willing to go any farther. They have become comfortable so leave me alone I have another movie to watch. Here's the problem often; what men are into is often not what wives need. When HE makes work or some other pursuit HIS top priority, something inside HER withers, and then dies. When SHE makes the children, work, or someother pursuit HER top priority, HE begins looking for something to numb the pain in HIS heart. couples drift apart unless they remain each others top priority. No matter where your marriage stands today, making each other top priority will always make it better.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Sunday can't beat that day
Today Jacob and I spent a lot of time playing X and O's and he just kept beating me every time, so when I saw this picture I had to put it in today's blog just for Jacob and every kid like me that likes to play X and O's.
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Saturday surprise
We had so much to do at the ranch this weekend but the Lord must have known that we needed some time off. It's hard to believe that it's the end of May and we are having a snow storm and we may even get more tomorrow.
God to rescue him..
Every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming.
Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect himself from the elements,
and to store his few possessions. One day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in
flames, with smoke rolling up to the sky. He felt the worst had happened, and everything was lost. He was stunned
with disbelief, grief, and anger.
He cried out, 'God! How could you do this to me?'
Early the next day, he was awakened by the sound of a ship approaching the island! It had come to rescue him!
'How did you know I was here?' asked the weary man of his rescuers. 'We saw your smoke signal,' they replied.
The Moral of This Story: It's easy to get discouraged when things are going bad, but we shouldn't lose heart,
because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of our pain and suffering.
Remember that the next time your little hut seems to be burning to the ground. It just may be a smoke signal that summons the Grace of God.
2 Corinthians 9:6-8 (New International Version)
Sowing Generously
6Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. 7Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. 8And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.Friday, May 28, 2010
Fridays' Frenzy
Spending the past three days with a bunch of guys that work all day and everyday developing waste water disposal systems for rural acreages. I've worked with this part of plumbing for years but this is very intense study of the theory of waste water. Things like vegetarians are three times harder on sewage systems than meat eaters and for years we have called the deposits at the bottom of a septic tank sludge and it is very rich and could be used for fertilizer. The name sludge has hindered any possibilities so now they have come up with a new name for sludge, (bio solids) and the top of the liquid in a septic tank has a layer that has been called for years scum and now they would like to call it (cream). They are trying to improve the image of the septic and the sewer system world, I'm not sure this is the right way to go about it. I also didn't know that waste water is about 99% water and 1% trace contaminants. WOW when I look at the stuff I would have thought 99% contaminants and 1% water. Anyways enough about waste water(sewer)for today, Diane is a bit upset with me as everytime we are together lately even at meals, I have been talking waste water.
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Thursday, May 27, 2010
Thursday the day of change
Diane and I have come down with something and it's not very nice, we ache all over and it's very hard to concentrate on school. So please pray as we watch God do what he does best. James and the others out at the Ranch got the rest of the footings poured today and all went so good he said P.T.L. Diane and I spent some time with my sister, Betty and my Aunt Elsie. We didn't stay long as we want to fight whatever is trying to get us down. I'm off to bed and allow the Holy Sprit to heal and remove these symptoms. God Bless you all and see you tomorrow.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Wednesday Report
We were so blessed as we got into the city and were able to get in touch with our friend Kathy and she let a couple of tired, ragged, road warriors like us stay with her for a few days. God is so good and he puts the right people in place to help us keep moving the ranch project along. My first day of school was a bit or I mean a lot of a mind overload and I can't believe I made it through, but the power of praying in the spirit gets all the credit. Diane and I spent a lot of time in prayer and this morning we were excited as to who God would put into our lives today that we needed to share the ranch with. Well I no sooner stepped into our classroom this morning and I hear a voice behind me say Mr. Stephan and when was finished talking to the instructor I turned to see an old friend John Prince the public health inspector from Unity and Wilki area and used to also work in Kindersley. Well by the end of the day he pretty much knew all there is to know about the ranch and he plans to stop in whenever he can. As I shared with John some of our challenges we have faced and being he works constantly with the public he said it's amazing that some people will choose to be part of the problem rather than a part of the solution in the attempt to help make a better world to live in. John said that all they have to do is look at your track record, that alone should convince anyone that your doing the right thing. It's like Denis from Teen Challenge said it's not an easy undertaking and he has seen it all.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Tuesday's Trivia
He said he would love it if he and his wife Diane would get an invite to our fall fundraiser. Denis signed and blessed us with a copy of the 50th anniversery book of Teen Challenge and a pin to wear on our jackets.
Philippians 4:19 (New International Version)
It may seem impossible but God works where we are not able.
Everyday God works on the hearts of His faithful and the blessing flow and God is glorified
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